Become Your Own Bliss

About Love

The Past...

I would do myself the greatest disservice if I allowed my past to dictate how I handle my present and how I open myself up to the future. I happen to be a tremendously defiant person especially when it comes to matters of the heart - romance, infatuation, and being in love. I didn't believe in any of those things until recently. Love stories, love songs, and the notion of giving myself endlessly and unabashedly to someone were synonymous with weakness in my opinion. Until of course, it happened to me.


He was everything I never knew I wanted. I didn't think men like him existed. I had no idea I was capable of these feelings. All of the things I thought I knew about men, love, and romance, all went flying out the door. In virtually no time at all, he was able to prove wrong the years of lies I believed. His kind and caring eyes can see past my pain and anxiety, determined to prove my perspective wrong.

Patient, Kind, Never Jealous

I'm not a fan of biblical references, but I can't help but feel that this man is the physical manifestation of Corinthians 13:1-13. The verse that speaks of love being patient, kind, never jealous and slow to anger. Those are his qualities, and he shares them abundantly with everyone around him, making people feel loved and cherished without much effort on his part.

Letting Go...

I had this preconceived notion of what my life was going to be like. I've become very good at being alone, and I've had no qualms about being everything I wanted - by myself. The plans that I've made and how I thought I want to live my life have completely gone out the window. Yes, I'm still a workaholic who has many successes to work toward, and my happiness doesn't depend upon him. This has been the biggest surprise of my life. I'm living a love story that people wish, hope, and dream for. He's the most unexpected, surprising gift I never knew existed. I was happy before him - I don't need him, but I want him with all my heart. For anyone who is capable of loving, I wish for an experience akin to mine.

He doesn't make me happy. I was already happy. He keeps me inspired.


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